LEADING IN WHAT CAN SOMETIMES BE AN OVERWHELMING WORLD!!
I have been at Ft. Hood, TX this past week with an amazing group of leaders. It was a week of learning, sharing, planning and team building. However, it wasn't all without challegne and some frustration!
When we were out in the field this week we are busy checking routes, discussing the upcoming mission and planning. However, there is also a lot of time for some deep thought. I spent a lot of time thinking about where I am as a leader, a team player and what I need to be focusing on in the future professionally and personally. Am I building up my team or am I tearing them down?
The last couple weeks have also been challenging, stressful, rewarding and I have gained some great knowledge as a leader and as a Soldier. I just wanted to share some of my thoughts with you because this doesn't apply to just Army Leaders or Soldiers. In life we are all in some form or fashion a leader, a coach, a mentor or a team player. You may work in an office, be an at home mom or dad, a health and fintess coach as I also am or play one of several other rolls in life.
Do you ever sit back and think about the decisions you have made and if that was the best decision you could have made? Or could you have made a better decision? Or was you in too much of a hurry to complete the task at hand and meet a deadline that maybe you didn't perform as you should have? Or as a leader how are you doing with your team? Are you coaching, guiding and mentoring them as you chould or should be? Are you setting the best example that you can? Are you gathering and absorbing all the information that you need in order to set your plan in place or to be able to plan for the upcoming mission? What other knowledge do you need? Are you conducting personal development to better yourself?
These were all some of the things on my mind this week:
Professionally it is a bit overwhelming I will admit as an Army Leader. So many people depend on us and have very high expectations. I have a battalion of troops that I have to bring back all the information that I gathered and what I learned and beable to break it down and share it with them so we are successful in our upcoming mission this summer. At the same time, I still had operations I was responsible for at Camp Shelby with troops working there. It is a lot to juggle sometimes, but I have some great Soldiers that help to make things happen. Sometimes in the heat of it all we loose sight of the endstate and get frustrated with each other, but at the end of the day we are a team and we will take the good with the bad and we will make it happen and we will continue to support each other.
Professionally and personally, I'm also a health and fitness coach with Beachbody. I spend a lot of time thinking about the coaches under me and how I can help and direct them and all the other customers that I have that are my team members that I'm coaching and helping to reach their health and fitness goals. In so many ways this is the same as the Army, but just on a different playing field. I'm a leader of my team and also as a coach and mentor. We are one big team and we all suport each other and encourage each other to reach our goals. These goals are also important to me as I continue my health and fitness journey. We are accountable to each other. This is another part of my life that is important and I have made a commitment to my team and I want to do my best to guide and mentor them.
A large piece of all of this is my children and grandson because I want to contine as a mother and grandmother to set a good example for them and coach and mentor them to a happy healthy life as well. Am I doing the best for them that I can? Quite often my challenge and my regret is I don't feel I give them enough time being away in the Army. When I am with them, I try to focus 100% on them becasue that time is so precious.
Food For Thought: As I mentioned, I had some challenges and stresses this week. There were moments I wanted to jump up and down and yell and scream. But, I know that isn't the professional thing to do and not the answer to the problem either. So instead, I took a deep breath and a few moments to calm down. Now I have had time to reflect and look back at the positive outcomes and how to better handle the issues next time.
My Challenge to You: Take some time to think about how you are handling issues as a leader. Are you turning the negative into a positive? What kind of example are you setting for your team? Are you coaching, mentoring and giving positive feedback and not always negativity? Reward and compliment those you work with. There is a time to correct and there is a time to build up. We often tear others down and leave with such a negative outcome that it tears the team down rather than motivates them and the morale becomes so low that it is then diffcult to work together. So what are you doing today to motivate your team and build them up when they need it?
Life isn't always easy, but life is what you make of it and the outcome of your choices! Make it a great day!!
CPT Nederhoed
aka Coach Jo 😉